“It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man struggles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs, who comes short again and again
Because there is no effort without error and shortcoming, but who does actually strive to do the deeds, who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself in a worthy cause
Who at best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly…”
— Thoedore Roosevelt, 1910
Her TED talk pretty much sums it up, the book just adds more details in specific areas such as leadership, education, and parenting
“脆弱的力量” — Brene Brown
https://youtu.be/J61bTBuB9V8